Purpose of Life

Purpose of life – what do we want or feel we do not have! Most of the people go for a purpose because they are feeling they must have something, we give it a name of purpose.

Main purpose of my life, according to me – Transcend your body and mind. Find, why are you here? What can you do to induce peace in your life?

Everything is depending on you, everything is unto you. You have to feed yourself, you come in relationship because you want to get love, whatever we do it is completed connected with us.

So, focus on yourself and infuse yourself with such vibes which not just prove you worthy, but also you may change others.

The most important thing in life:

The most important thing in life is not money. It’s not friends. It’s not family. It’s not even how much fun you have.”The only thing that matters is if you lived your life the way you wanted to.”

At the end of it all, when you are on your deathbed and you look back, you will ask yourself what really mattered. Did you do everything you wanted to? Do you remember the times that took your breath away? Do you feel as though you lived a fulfilled life? Are you satisfied with how you lived? Would you live this life again?

For each and every one of us the reasons we would answer those questions with “YES” are different. Some may look back and see their family smiling, loving and caring for them. Others may look back and remember the times they pushed for their private goals and achieved more than they thought they could. And others still may think about their life and feel satisfied and happy because they led a life full of unique experiences.

What matters to you in the end is dependent on who you are. No one can tell you that.

“You don’t have to defend or explain your decisions to anyone. It’s your life. Live it without apologies.”
– Mandy Hale

However, if you just keep chasing after the things you want, if you do not give up on what matters to you and if you try to become better and better and better day after day, you will live a life without regrets.

You will look back on your life with a smile and see that everything you have done was your choice. And that the choices you made led you to a life fully lived.

But you will also make mistakes along the way.

No one is perfect and there will be things you realize you should have done differently. But we always see it that way in hindsight.

You might not yet be the person that will look back on life with a smile on their face, but that does not mean you cannot become that man or woman.

Myself still stands where my mom left me @2015. Its been 6 years now. But,
I still have the opportunity right now to choose how to live the rest of my life.
“I” Replace “You” in the quote for reading. No complimentary for me here.

And all you have to do to is to choose to make it one worth living, to chase the things you want, and to keep getting better and better as you go along.

“It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it. It’s not what you see, it’s how you look at it. It’s not how your life is, it’s how you live it.”

Two words to be mentioned following my name is my mom’s wish. Yes, I Degree. But, happy for the fulfilment? never because it’s for her sake. Now I’m a Writer. This is the content for that missed two words.

Dedicated to Mom.


Just look at the conversation, you will get the answer.
A real conversation which made me feel bad.
XYZ: Hey, Syed how are you?

Me: I’m fine thank you and you?

XYZ: I’m good too, Syed you write so well and I have never seen such narrating skills in any other writers in this platform. Are you a professional writer?

Me: No, I’m an Engineer

XYZ: Wow, that’s good and I work as a lecturer in Bangalore.

Me: That’s great

XYZ: In the past 5 days I went through all of your answers. Your answers are addictive. Some of your answers made me cry, sad, laugh, pushed me into deep thinking, inspired, gave goosebumps and made me wonder with your blunt behaviour. You are such a gem to your parents. Every parent should have a son like you.

Me: ❤️

XYZ: You are an amazing person blessed with talent, I liked your braveness, bluntness, and the way of expressing your views without caring for anyone. The girl you will going to marry will be the luckiest person to have a matured person like you as a husband.

Me: Thank you!! Can I ask you something?

XYZ: Yes, please

Me: I don’t know your age, but just imagine if you have a daughter of 23 years old would you be allowing her to marry me? Or will you be accepting me as your Son-in-law? Be honest with your answer and give brief explanation

There was a pause in the conversation!

XYZ: Honestly, No!!《she explained the reason, but I don’t wanna show it here 》

Me: Hmmm, but you said the girl who will go to marry will be the luckiest? You don’t like to get your daughter lucky?
As expected, there was no response!

I will leave it for you to conclude.

If you are good, but if you showcase your bad side then you are a bad person.

If you are bad, but if you hide your bad side and showcase only the good side then you are a good person.

Society is obsessed with Goodness, richness and well polished fake personalities.

Best Definition of Maturity:

For Example :

We usually, use any type for pastes right to brush our teeth?

Now, when our tooth-paste gets over then we switch to new one. Some of us become impatient not to have a paste in time! But wait!

We can push it to take out the remaining things!
You think it would be foolishness to take it out? Don’t be immature!
You just need a little extra effort to take it out! Here it is!

We live in a life full of desires. Maturity doesn’t depend upon age!

“Maturity is like taking out the remaining paste from the enclosure. If we push ourselves a little even after exhausting our work quota to solve our problems then it will be solved automatically which will reflect as maturity.

If we start complaining about it without putting any efforts and ignore the consequences of hard work then that will reflect as immaturity.”

Maturity is hidden inside everyone. It is just the matter of time and situations, when you stop complaining about your unfulfilled things in life and start putting extra efforts to make things bright.

Why & What makes an Indian Father Sad?

That was a Aug 6th. The middle aged person was waiting at the hospital.

His wife was crying in labour pain & Doctor said Cesarean only possible due to critical position of Baby. While all relatives were standing besides, then the person hold his wife’s soft hands and said,

“Don’t worry! Everything will be fine.”

That was the first time, the person was going to witness a child birth. While everyone was thinking about the baby and were naming it, then the person broke down. Tears rolled down from his eyes.

Was praying to God..! Both should be Safe.!
Doctor said “Congratulations, you are blessed with a Baby girl.”

That was one of the happiest moments of his life. He saw the little baby for the first time. Everyone asked him whether everything is fine or not.

He replied,‘Today she came to our house with a smile, after sometimes she will leave our house by making us cry towards another destination.’

Those words were really deep. As if a soulful conversation between father and stages of a daughter was running in background.

When an Father bid Goodbye to his daughter that makes him sad but when, the daughter blames her dad in the name of different psycho movements to call their father as ‘Trash’ that makes an father more sad than ever.

Before regarding the male community as trash, think about the immense pain of your father who has created you as a part of his soul.